One more idea: as you are going through your closets, cupboards and drawers, don't be afraid to set aside some 're-gifts' as well. I have already freely admitted that I am a re-gifter (I am trying to bring it into the mainstream). Contrary to popular opinion, I believe that re-gifting actually can be a way to show your affections for another, especially if it is done with a great deal of thought. Sometimes someone gives me something that I really like, but that I don't need, and I think, 'I know someone who will appreciate this even more than me'. What I am saying is, don't just set aside random 'stuff', but have a person in mind who you think might really enjoy that item (that way, it also ensures that it will eventually leave your house!) if you are interested in re-gifting but worried about the etiquette, click here for a list of suggested 'rules' for regifting. I will admit that I don't always follow these rules... I have been known to re-gift stuff like appliances (espresso machine, bread maker, etc.). The key to my re-gift was to make it a lot more personal: I added specialty flours with the bread maker, bread machine yeast, and some hand-written recipe cards and with the espresson machine: some specialty coffee, etc. I was also upfront about the fact that it was a re-gift and that it had been used... (don't worry, I cleaned them both up just like shiny new!) Think what you want about re-gifting, but I am sold on its virtues! Agree or disagree on this issue, I would love to hear from you, so I am once again going to poll the audience (this time I refuse to abide by the results however, I am a die-hard re-gifter!)
So, this week's poll choices are:
- You should NEVER re-gift. It is thoughtless, cheap, and rude.
- Re-gifting is acceptable on certain occasions, as long as it is done with thought and some degree of re-gifting etiquette is employed.
- Re-gifting is the best. Anything is fair game!
There's no such thing as bad regifts, just bad regifters. - Quote from the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette
Happy re-gifting (or not if that's the way you roll)
Marebare :)